“Vanilla” hasn’t for ages been a put-down
“Those of us that have various . notions of eroticism and sensuality are merely dismissed. The pejorative word beingword that is pejorative ‘vanilla,’ which will be ironically, the most sensual aromas.” – Andrea Dworkin.
“I wish BDSM people would stop talking about me personally as ‘vanilla.’ A derogatory name that implies they’re all prudish bores?” – Anonymous, commenter on Bitch if you’re making the case that everyone should be free to do what they like without being judged, why call non-BDSM people.
We also be concerned about the kinkification of culture if we bemoan the oversexualization of culture, should?
As BDSM writer Clarisse Thorn writes, “Being a sex-positive feminist, we stress that other ladies will read might work and it surely will increase their performance anxiety . that it’ll lead other females to feel just like, ‘Gosh, is it one thing liberated women that are sex-positive? Continue reading “just What do you consider Is vanilla intercourse bland?”